Biblical Marriage: Part of God’s Family
By Rick Warren
— May 15, 2009
“For where two or three come together in My name, I am there with them” (Matthew 18:20 TEV). Any successful marriage is built upon the biblical truth that God designed each of us with five purposes in mind: worship, fellowship, discipleship, ministry, and missions.
Until you realize you and your mate were placed together for God’s purposes, then your marriage will be difficult, complicated, and exhausting. But once you understand God’s plan, your marriage takes on new meaning.
You and your spouse were formed for God’s family. God made an incredible promise about the gathering of even just two believers: “For where two or three come together in My name, I am there with them” (Matthew 18:20 TEV).
So if both you and your spouse are believers, God is already in your marriage working to transform the two of you into a purpose driven family!
Your marriage is a lab for learning how to love like Jesus loves. Within marriage, God has created an opportunity for us to develop a true intimacy and authenticity with another human being.
To go this deep requires genuine, heart-to-heart, gut-level sharing, where you and your spouse get honest about who you are and what’s going on in your lives. This happens when you both share your hurts, reveal your feelings, confess your failures, disclose your doubts, admit your fears, acknowledge your weaknesses, and ask each other for help and prayer.